How to Kiss…

Learn how to kiss better and like a pro!

Kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no wrong way to kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss. While others can’t imagine kissing without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get used to the way that person kisses.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations, such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner’s upper or lower lip, then trying the other two types. And don’t just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

The perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. Sometimes people put too much pressure on setting the mood imagining a kiss under the moonlight on a perfect stretch of Sanibel Island real estate.  The truth is some of the most romantic kisses can take place right in your own kitchen.  It is the emotion behind the kiss that matters not where it takes place. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring two people closer together.

A lot of people have been writing to us on how to overcome the fear of kissing someone. Our answer would be to not kiss that person right away. Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out with the person a couple of times before having that first kiss.
 

Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath – This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don’t want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips – You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don’t wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning – Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side.  If you don’t, don’t worry about it.  Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on.  If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes – Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.  Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another’s eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable.  You may want to try kissing this way once you’re more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips – Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips – This is like the type of kiss you’d give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you’re nervous.

Hands – There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss.  The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other one against the middle of their back.  Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner’s face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner’s neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner’s upper or lower arms gently, run your finger’s through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner’s and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.

Relax – You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person.  There are only two things involved in a French kiss:  your lips and your tongue.  That’s it!

Open Lips – Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you’re at the dentist.  Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning – Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch.  You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs.  If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on.  Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other’s mouth. 

If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person.  Their lips have already touched.  When you touch the other person’s lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.

Tongue – Practice on your own if you’d like.  Open your mouth enough (while you’re by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out.  It will go past your teeth.  Don’t stick your entire tongue out… just an inch or two.  That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss.  So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours.  When this happens, both of your tongues will touch.  Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs.  If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do.  They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same.  Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing!  Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring.  The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing.

As for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you.  Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight.  Sometimes they won’t.  Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn’t.  It’s totally up to you.

You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner’s lips are parted suck on their top or bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you’ve kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Vacuum Kissing

This is a playful kiss.  While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you’re sucking the air from your partner.

Cordial Kissing

Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner’s mouth.  Only take a very small sip.

Butterfly Kissing

Put your eye really close to your partner’s cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin.  You can also do this on their lips.

Melt Kissing (from visitor’s email)

Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing.

Marathon Kissing (from visitor’s email)

See how long you can kiss for (try 5 – 10 minutes straight)

Glow stick Frenzy (from visitor’s email)

Pass the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).

Tongue Sucking (from visitor’s email)

When you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as you can.  Don’t  suck to hard, you don’t want to hurt your partner.  Otherwise it’s very pleasing!

Candy Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Use either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard candy/mint.  Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their  mouth and then it is like a game of keep away.  Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other  person tries to get it in theirs.  But you can only use your tongue and lips.  This can be very fun if you have the right  partner!!!  Enjoy.

Sigh Kiss (from visitor’s email)

When you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the tip of your tongue.  Then blow or sigh into  their lips, causing a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.

The Tickle Kiss (from visitor’s email)
 
In this kiss you make use of the fact that the roof of the mouth is the most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal French kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue across the roof of each other’s mouth. This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the winner is the person who can stand them  because the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is different every time and always fun.

Name Kiss (from visitor’s email)

If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!

Tongue Wars (from visitor’s email)

Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person “blocks” the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.

Starburst Trick (from visitor’s email)  

Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!

Pop Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Use pop-rocks, great fun. You’ve heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!

Ring Kiss (from visitor’s email)

What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are french kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!

Tongue Tease (from visitor’s email)

When you’re French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same.  It’s very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts.  Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.

Touch Kiss (from visitor’s email)

You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed alot.  What you do is just simply touch tongues – like the tip of your tongue.  You may want  to move it around but you don’t have to.  You don’t do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.

Underwater Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.

Moving Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them.  Very good for serious couples or just beginners.

Flavor Kissing (from visitor’s email)

Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!

Chin Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Hold your partner’s chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.

Lip Venom (from visitor’s email)

Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn’t looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day.

Pepper Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It gives the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)

Chew Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into mouth deeply…  you VERY GENTLY “chew” on the back part of their tongue… do not suck.  This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!

Breath Kiss (from visitor’s email)

In a hot moment – creates major anticipation – barely touch lips with lips slightly parted… then breath your partner’s breath… moving heads slowly to experience different sensations…  lips touching on and off slightly… it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion tremendously.

Tongue Ring Kiss (from visitor’s email)

What you do is, if your partner has a tongue ring and the two of you are French kissing, mess with his/her tongue ring while kissing and it gives your partner chills and excitement/happiness because a lot of people with tongue rings love that. Or if the two of you have a tongue ring have a tongue ring WAR! What you do is keep his/her tongue away from your tongue ring, while you’re messing with their tongue ring. (NOTE: don’t Tangle tongue rings together because that will be a disaster!)

Do What You Want Kiss (from visitor’s email)

This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.

Trade-Off Kiss (from visitor’s email)

One of you gets a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. One takes the cinnamon and the other the mint. While French kissing switch them from time to time.

Who Lasts Longer Kiss (from visitor’s email)

Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It’s great fun because you can lose on purpose and still win!

Spiderman Kiss (from visitor’s email)

It’s just like in the movie.  You kiss upside down, taking in both of your lower lips and do all those other kisses listed above.

Spitzer Kiss (from visitor’s email)
 
What you do is when you are ready to kiss (or even while you’re Frenching or doing any other kiss) is gently nibble and/or lick the parts just above or below your partner’s lip. Now don’t slobber all over your partner.  Just give enough saliva to get them damp. This is very fun and romantic. It will also turn your partner on or in other words make them like the kiss more.

Steam Kiss (from visitor’s email)

You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there’s some steam. It’s fun because if it doesn’t work, just keep trying!

Lap Kiss (from visitor’s email)

While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner’s top lip, and  vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.

Carmex Kiss (from visitor’s email)

If either you or your partner are not carmex junkies, apply a little carmex to your lips and feel the gentle tingle on your lips.

Muzzle Kiss (from visitor’s email)

When kissing the neck of your partner, at one point blow air out of your mouth while pressing the lips down, creating the sound of some sort of… flatulence.! It should be ever so unexpected and quite interesting indeed.

Dive Gear Kiss (from visitor’s email)

While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear.  Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.

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